Divorce is a Developmental Stage of Adulthood
Many women show up in my sexual empowerment work on the heels of their divorce. The feelings in post-divorce can range from feeling betrayed, like you missed out on something important, regret…
How “Clever Complaining” Blocks Our Abundance
The idea of being abundant and creating abundance is ubiquitous, and yet so many of us have a chronic problem with possibly the biggest abundance blocker there is: Complaining. Complaining sucks the life out of…
Am I Sexually Broken?
I have been hearing from women over the last several months about this idea that they are sexually broken. And a lot of times they are welling up with tears,…
This Is What 50 Looks Like!
I turned 50 this week! It’s very surreal to think back to when you’re a kid and you think that people in their 40s and 50s are so old! I…
My Love Letter to Betty Dodson, fly in Pleasure! 1929-2020
The Great Freedom Fighter, Betty Dodson, has left the planet. She taught more women how to have orgasms than anyone else ever–no small feat. I called her when I was…
Why We Feel Bad About Feeling Good: The Top 5 Pleasure-Blockers
It’s hard for so many of us to feel true pleasure. We don’t allow ourselves to feel good. It doesn’t really make any sense. Why? Why would we block ourselves…
Here’s the equation: BE + DO = HAVE
I will not lay down. I will not be resigned that “it’s just gonna be like it always is. Nothing will change.” Someone actually posted a comment to that effect…
The Modern Sexual Priestess & the Sexually Uninitiated
“Often sensations that we experience as terrible or painful are just pleasure without approval.” Carolyn Elliott Once upon a time in many cultures, there was such thing as a sexual…
Sexual Archetypes 101
There have been many questions about archetypes and some intrigue about them, so this week I thought I’d give you a little primer about my approach to these archetypes and…
The New Violence of Forced Sterilization
This week, a nurse at an ICE detention center blew the whistle on alleged mass forced/coerced sterilizations of women at the facility. If true, this is a horrific human rights…
