The Good Girl vs. the Authentic Woman
It’s no secret that women are socialized to take care of everyone else, to question ourselves, and to take a back seat in business, money and sex. As women, being…
How Does Money Relate To Sexuality?
When we evoke the Fire Woman, we mean from the inside. It’s been a very sad week in California with the fires raging in our canyons and so many people…
It’s A Complex Holiday
I am so grateful for the rain that has washed over the west coast. These fires have been devastating to many and sending love to the firefighters who are risking…
10 Ways of the Sex-Money Connection: Jumpstart Your Sexual Battery & Fuel Your Financial Prosperity
Do you long for more fulfillment sexually and more freedom financially? Do you feel stuck in patterns of worthiness, deprivation or “not-enoughness” around sex and money? Do you want to…
Unpacking Santa and Consent
I was walking in Pasadena yesterday and happened upon a local holiday fair, with live music, food, lots of people and a good long line to sit on Santa’s lap.…
What Sexual Empowerment Really Means
People are often confused by what I do when I tell them I am a Sexual Empowerment Coach and Sexuality Educator. The other day someone said, “Oh, so you do…
What the USWNT, Black Panther & the 116th Congress have in common [love letter]
On Day One of the 116th Congress, as more women and people of color than ever before poured into the House chambers to do their newly appointed jobs representing the…
What’s a Sex Coach?
When I tell someone that I’m a sex coach, they generally find it confusing. Often, I will hear, “Oh, so like, you’re a sex therapist?” Well not exactly. “So then,…
What to do when sex dwindles in a longterm relationship
Anyone who has been in a relatively sober long-term relationship knows how challenging it can be to maintain a juicy sexual life over the long run. Your sex life may…
What Social Justice, Pleasure & Consent Have in Common
Social Justice is sexy in the way that consent is sexy. When people are cared for, when their needs and desires are met, when they are invited to participate—whether it’s…
