From Sexual Abuse to a Sexual Homecoming, Excerpt from Woman On Fire
When Patsy contacted me, she was the youngest private client I had ever had. At 23, she was ready to heal from the sexual abuse history that had impacted her…
Sexual Self-Actualization: A Hierarchy of Sexual Needs [Part 2]
Read part one It’s almost shocking that psychologist Abraham Maslow thought only 1% of people would self-actualize. He thought that “most of us function most of the time on a…
Surrendering to Life: The Inventory of the Un-Done
Over the last month I’ve been very sick—sicker than I have ever been in my life. I’ve had every test under the sun to figure out what is wrong and…
Halloween is the Most Sexual Holiday
Last week I had to write about Katie Hill given the political situation that had erupted. I got a huge response from that article—thank you to everyone who wrote in…
Revenge porn is a tool of the patriarchy
This year I passionately worked on the ground for House Representative Katie Hill’s campaign in northern Los Angeles. My friends and I were committed to helping this young, smart woman…
How hidden shame impacts sexuality
One of the most common things people say they want when it comes to sexuality is to release the shame and guilt they carry about it. Most people are walking…
Top Sex Tips Ever
There are many sources of advice today to make our sex lives more exciting. Friends, magazines, movies and the Internet are just a few. The physical intimacy that sex provides…
DeArmouring & ReWilding the Sexual Self
Dearmouring and ReWilding are interrelated aspects of our healing that allow us to move fully towards true liberation and freedom. The work I do as a sexual empowerment educator and…
“Confidence has nothing to do with sexuality”
Last week I received an email from a woman who was very upset because she had taken my Confidence Types Quiz and she was shocked that there were questions about…
5 Ways Your Self-Esteem Impacts Your Sexuality
At it’s core, self-esteem is about holding ourselves in esteem—liking oneself. Do you wake up each day and love being you? Do you support you? The post 5 Ways Your…
