The Women are Coming…
I don’t know about you, but my nervous system just sighed deeply with relief. Four years of people in leadership positions promoting terror, hatefulness, anger, fighting, not caring for the American people and showing…
Permission for Pleasure
Most of us need the permission to step out of the confinements of whatever limiting behaviors we have been taught, and when we do, we find parts of ourselves that…
2020 Sexual Year in Review
We may have been quarantined, on lockdown, social distancing, missing our favorite restaurants and outings, longing for friend hangouts, challenged with online dating, touch deprived, sick of tight quarters with…
Divorce is a Developmental Stage of Adulthood
Many women show up in my sexual empowerment work on the heels of their divorce. The feelings in post-divorce can range from feeling betrayed, like you missed out on something important, regret…
How “Clever Complaining” Blocks Our Abundance
The idea of being abundant and creating abundance is ubiquitous, and yet so many of us have a chronic problem with possibly the biggest abundance blocker there is: Complaining. Complaining sucks the life out of…
Am I Sexually Broken?
I have been hearing from women over the last several months about this idea that they are sexually broken. And a lot of times they are welling up with tears,…
This Is What 50 Looks Like!
I turned 50 this week! It’s very surreal to think back to when you’re a kid and you think that people in their 40s and 50s are so old! I…
My Love Letter to Betty Dodson, fly in Pleasure! 1929-2020
The Great Freedom Fighter, Betty Dodson, has left the planet. She taught more women how to have orgasms than anyone else ever–no small feat. I called her when I was…
Why We Feel Bad About Feeling Good: The Top 5 Pleasure-Blockers
It’s hard for so many of us to feel true pleasure. We don’t allow ourselves to feel good. It doesn’t really make any sense. Why? Why would we block ourselves…
Here’s the equation: BE + DO = HAVE
I will not lay down. I will not be resigned that “it’s just gonna be like it always is. Nothing will change.” Someone actually posted a comment to that effect…
